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Touch of Gray - May / June 2002

The Griffins Remember Afghanistan
Two Talented Musicians
Women Who Served in World War Two Remember
Employee Scholarship Winners
Helaine Plaut Receives 2002 President's Award
Empire of the Sultans
Carolina Meadows Winners in Senior Games


 

The Griffins Remember Afghanistan
   Carol and Willis Griffin, who now live at Carolina Meadows, clearly remember their first glimpse of Afghanistan. The view was through the windows of an ancient unpressurized DC-3 twin-propeller aircraft, smelling of uncured karakul pelts and the residue of airsick passengers, as it flew through the towering mountain spires on the air route from Karachi, Pakistan. The scenery was compelling, as was the warm welcome accorded to them by Willis’s future colleagues of a Teachers College Columbia University mission, when they landed there in the early morning light in September, 1956.

   Willis, a Teachers College, Columbia University Doctorate and an associate professor in Teachers College, was en route to Kabul as assistant director of a mission sponsored by the U.S. State Department to work with Afghan officials to modernize their public education system. When Griff presented the prospect of an assignment in Afghanistan to Carol, her response was quick: "Let’s go! Where is it?"

   The entire family of Willis, known as Griff, Carol, Cynthia, 7, and Timothy, 4, made the long journey from New York. The original assignment of eighteen months was at Griffin’s request extended to four years. In Kabul, a new home awaited them. One of the few two-story homes in Kabul, it was a spacious concrete house, surrounded by a wall for security and privacy, owned by a retired Afghan general and leased to a succession of American expatriates. It came equipped with a household staff of male servants prepared to cook and serve meals, keep house, take care of the laundry, provide security, and help to educate the Griffins in the folkways and customs of their new neighbors.

   Each of the visiting American experts was assigned an Afghan counterpart, who was expected eventually to go to America for further training before returning to Afghanistan to work as a specialist in some field of education. Griff’s counterpart was a young Afghan known as Mr. Formaly, who came from a remote village and had learned about America mainly from the movies. He was sure that all the Indians in the US lived and worked in Hollywood.

   Although Griff had served in the China-Burma-India theater as an Air Force communications officer in World War II, life in Afghanistan still held revelations stemming from the complex history of Central Asia. Through three wars in the 19th and 20th centuries, the Afghans had successfully resisted British efforts to graft Afghanistan onto the Indian Raj and Czarist efforts to bring it under Russian sway. In the mid-20th century, following the reigns of several modernizing monarchs, the Afghans were opening themselves more broadly to Western influence. For archeological studies they turned to the French. For science, they borrowed from the Germans, and now they were seeking American advice to help them improve their schools.

   Carol, who had grown up on Long Island and attended the University of Michigan, was making her first foray outside the United States and finding herself enchanted by the strange old country. Later, in an account of the family’s adventures, she wrote:
"I had never lived among mountains. To look up and see barren heights encircling the city gave me a feeling of shelter but also sequestered and remote. The mountains fascinated me as they altered in shape and color, mist or clouds shadowing or obliterating the peaks, light seeking crevices, gray changing to black to purple to pink to tan to white crowned peaks that slowly stretched downward during the winter months like the lowering of a veil. At 6,500 feet the city air was light and dry and the sky spread close, like the inside of a tent top."

   The contrasts with her previous life went far beyond the scenery and the climate. "The numerous cultural differences were more startling," she wrote. "Strict Muslim law governed the country. No Afghan woman could be seen outside her home without the chadari, a long, usually light blue gown that hung over her head and down to her ankles with a slight lattice work slit from which she viewed the world but was not seen or identified by others….We foreign women were careful about our dress, never wearing pants in public or sleeveless dresses or shorts in the summer. Even so our uncovered heads and bare legs drew stares and comments."

   "When we were invited to an Afghan home, the foreigners sat in one room with the men of the house, while the women prepared food and discussed us as they peered through carved wooden screens in the walls. Often the children and I were escorted back to the women’s quarters; we foreign women were fortunate in having the best of two worlds, being with the men as well as having access to the female area."

   As curious and interested visitors, the Griffins tried to take in as much as they could of the country surrounding them. Disregarding warnings of bandits and warlords, they drove the precipitous rock-strewn narrow road from Kabul to the Kyber Pass and on into Pakistan.

   The Griffin children, Cynthia and Timothy, were enrolled along with children of American and other foreign families in the International School. The wife of a French archeologist had founded the school, and while most classes were taught in English, the teaching of French was strongly emphasized.

   In what was regarded as a cultural breakthrough, on the national holiday the king, Zahir Shah, and government officials appeared in public with their wives who had abandoned the traditional chadari, signaling a mandate to cast aside the veil. "This was a major event," says Griff. "It was an indicator of the direction in which the country was headed, and among other results, it led indirectly toward the expansion of schools for girls." Afterward, middle class and upper class women felt free to appear in public in western dress. Many women of more traditional families, however, continued to wear the chadari.

   One of the objectives of the Columbia Team efforts was to widen the teaching of English. There had been English language teachers in the country since the early ‘50s, and the Teachers College program recruited a linguist expert and several teachers of ESL (English as a Second Language) to help spread English. Carol was asked by the Deputy Minister of Education to teach English to young women at the Women’s Faculty (University). These students, all members of the upper class, had attended a girls’ secondary school where the language of instruction was French, but many of them hoped to go for higher education to the US, England, Pakistan and India or to accompany future husbands on diplomatic assignments.

   Griff and his colleagues found strong support for their project in the Ministry of Education, and especially with Dr. Mohammed Anas, the deputy minister of education, who became a valued friend of the Griffins. Another very close friend was Musa Shafiq Kamawi, who had studied at Al Azhar in Cairo as well as at the Institute for International Law at Columbia University. In 1964 he headed a special commission to rewrite the Constitution and to explain it to the provinces throughout the country. The Loya Jirga, the governing Council, was to have its members elected directly from the various provinces. In the past the members had been appointed by the Shah.

   Later the Teachers College Project focused on improving the textbooks available to Afghan schools. Griff reflected that much of the work done in Afghanistan was lost during the Soviet occupation from 1979 to 1989 and the following years of internal conflict and rule by the Taliban. Under the Taliban, education of girls was virtually abandoned and the teaching of boys was largely limited to madrassahs, the religious schools that taught little but rote memorization of the Koran.

   After a few years in Afghanistan, Griff was awarded a sabbatical leave and a grant from the Asia Foundation to do a six-month study at the American University of Beirut. There he wrote a report which he called "There May Yet be Time," a title inspired by a statement from Musa Shafiq when attempting to find the way Afghanistan could retain its basic Islamic values while undertaking progressive reform. After another eighteen months in Kabul, Griff returned to Teachers College to help recruit and train people to continue the work of the Afghan Project and a similar project in India, which he subsequently joined for three years. A third child was born in India. On returning to the United States, Griff joined the Center for Developmental Change at the University of Kentucky. He and his family lived in Lexington, KY, until he and Carol moved to Carolina Meadows three years ago.

   Meanwhile, following the defeat of the Taliban regime in Afghanistan, Teachers College is now gathering a small working group and exploring the possible resuscitation of the Afghan Project and exploring new ways to reach the Afghan people. As Barry Rosen, director of External Affairs at Teachers College put it, "The textbooks created by Teachers College and the Afghan Ministry of Education separated religion from the other disciplines and used the Socratic method to encourage thinking."

   The work of Griff and the other professionals involved in the original Afghan Project was documented in the archives of the Milbank Memorial Library at Teachers College. These records are currently under study for the guidance they can provide in a new educational effort in Afghanistan.

   In the last twenty years time ran out for Afghanistan’s people. Perhaps now the new Afghan government and international endeavors can yet provide the means for THERE MAY YET BE TIME, the hopeful theme of Griff’s 1959 paper and the dream of the late Musa Shafiq. -- Robert Parker, Resident

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Two Talented Musicians
   An overflow audience enjoyed Connie Rachlin's presentation of Becky Wagner's harp recordings in The Fairways some weeks ago. Don Hamm, who organized the event, pointed out Becky and Connie were lifelong friends and fellow students at the remarkable Curtis Institute of Music in Philadelphia, the all-scholarship school that produced so many outstanding musicians over the years.

   I, for one, never before realized the versatility of the harp as a musical instrument until I heard Becky's beautiful interpretations of so many classical favorites. Did you know that these particular recordings had been long forgotten and lay dormant in the vaults of the Curtis Institute of Music for almost seventy years? When Becky became ill two years ago her eldest son, Herbert Theodore, unearthed them and transferred them to CDs for our renewed enjoyment.

   Most of us realize that Connie Rachlin, too, is quite a performer as a pianist in her own right. Connie is a frequent accompanist in the auditorium for many campus events, ranging from memorial services to Sunday concerts. She is also the official accompanist for CM's male vocal group, the Elder Statesmen who hold their regular rehearsals in her villa. Did you know that Connie (then Connie Russell) was a child virtuoso in her native Washington, DC, starting at the age of five and performed on the radio as young as six? You should see her scrapbook of youthful appearances, including her playing at the National Society of Children of the American Revolution Convention in Continental Hall when she was twelve years old. -- Des Riley, Resident

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Women Who Served in World War Two Remember
   For many of us living in Carolina Meadows, World War Two was the defining event of our lives. As we honor the men who took part, let us not forget the 100,000 women who also served in the Armed Forces. We asked eleven of these veterans living here to think back sixty years and recall some of their experiences.

   Gert Kohn, now approaching her 87th birthday, has been a Carolina Meadows resident since 1986. Hailing from Michigan, she had a long and distinguished career in nursing. In the forties, while serving as a school nurse in her hometown of Palmer, Michigan, she ran into old school friends who had lost limbs in battle. She wondered if some of their limbs could have been saved with more nursing attention and decided to enlist.

   She served with the Army Nursing Corps in the Pacific Theater and as she put it, "did what nurses do - take care of patients. We had American and Chinese servicemen and frequently Japanese prisoners." Her most unusual wartime experience, she recalls, was meeting with the Indian leader, Mahatma Gandhi.

   But the memory that really stays with her was entering New York Harbor about ten in night in 1946 at war's end and seeing the Statue of Liberty so brightly lit. "We anchored for the night," she remembers. "The excitement of all the tugs and vessels giving salutes in the morning and the crowd waiting on the dock - the band playing and the Red Cross there giving us free milk, a long awaited treat."

   In 1941, Emily Newcity signed on with the WACs as a secretary. But when assigned to service at Fort H. G. Wright in New York, they discovered that she was a singer and she became an entertainer to the troops. Hers was the first WAC contingent to go to the Southwest Pacific. She was assigned to the Counter-Intelligence Section of GHQ. Her unit was first stationed in Brisbane, Australia and then moved up as the war progressed to Hollandia, New Guinea, Tachoban on Leyte and finally to Manila in the Philippines.

   Recalling those Far Eastern postings, she still remembers how she loved Australia, was intrigued by New Guinea and shocked by the devastation of Manila. She remembers meeting some of the Americans taken prisoner by the Japanese at the outbreak of war. "They really lived a nightmare," she comments.

   Nowadays at Carolina Meadows every Friday Emily's husky, alluring and still strong voice joins Ed Hasselblad at the piano for our Health Center Happy hour. The Ed and Emily Show proved so popular that a second one takes place on Wednesdays, at The Fairways, our assisted living center.

   Dorothy Ferster graduated from Case Western University. When war broke out she joined the WAVES. With her background as an English major she was trained as a Communications Officer. At the Navy Department she encoded and decoded messages and delivered Secret and Top secret messages to Navy command posts, to the Pentagon and even to the White House. "I sometimes went on foot, sometimes on a tricycle along the corridors of the Navy Department and across the temporary bridges than spanned the reflecting pool in front of the Washington Monument," she recalls.

   What was her most striking memory of those years, we asked her. "Most interesting from a personal standpoint, " she commented, "was that I met my future husband at a dance for military personnel in Washington. We danced the rest of the evening together. We have been married 56 years and have been dancing together ever since." That is true enough. Dorothy and Paul were among those who began the Carolina Meadows Club Med-Oh!s weekly dance programs here ten years ago and they still take the floor on Friday nights.

   Pauline Brimhall was a school nurse in Eastern Michigan University when the war broke out. She enlisted in the US Army Nurse Corps in 1943, reporting to Camp McCoy in Sparta, Wisconsin. Along with 18 other nurses, 20 medical officers and other enlisted men she served on the staff of the 35th Field Hospital overseas, serving in the European, African and Middle Eastern Theaters of war. Her most vivid memories were of Southern Italy where she spent most of her war years. After four months in a field hospital in Erchie in the toe of Italy, she was asked to head a platoon of nurses to move 46 miles away to Lecce on the Adriatic to set up her own 100-bed hospital to serve the 98th Bomber Group.

   "It was here that we suffered one of the worst epidemics of hepatitis in the world, according to the team of doctors sent from Washington to investigate," she recalls. "Many of the military, including all my nurses except one, and even I, myself, became acutely ill and had to be sent to a General Hospital in Bari, Italy, for intensive care. I was hospitalized for over a month before being well enough to return to duty." As the war moved into central Europe in 1945, she and her staff were sent to Naples, awaiting orders to be shipped to the Pacific. "And then," she remembers, " came the long-awaited news that the war was over!"

   Margaret Disney was secretary to the Dean of the Baltimore College of Dental Surgery when the war began. The Army mounted a recruitment effort called "Blue Angels for Purple Hearts" to recruit nurses' aides for wounded soldiers and Margaret joined up. She says that she received much more than she gave from her time in the service. The x-ray training she received made a big difference later in her thirty-year working career in Maryland's Chronic and Rehabilitation Hospitals.

   D'Ann Craven loves to water-walk in the swimming pool and you will find her there almost daily. It seems like a long time ago since she served as an Ensign in the US Navy Nurse Corps in World War Two. "Lots of my friends served overseas," she commented, "but all my service was only eighty miles from home - at the Great Lakes Naval Training Station." One day she does not forget was when her unit took part in the Navy Day Parade in Chicago and was reviewed by Admiral Halsey.

   Carol Lasher Miller, a recent arrival at Carolina Meadows and an artist of note, was at the University of Georgia when the war began. A year later she joined the WAVES, as many of her friends were in the Navy. Her college degree had trained her in drawing and painting so she became a Lieutenant JG working as an illustrator in the Bureau of Aeronautics in Washington D C. She also had duty on the Navy Pier in Chicago where her group built models and highlighted Navy activities to encourage citizens to invest in War Bonds. She recalls meeting Hollywood producers and artists there who were involved in the project.

   Phyllis Sternschein was an executive secretary at the Screen Cartoonists Guild in Los Angeles in 1941 when war broke out. Many of the young men in the Guild were enlisting. So Phyllis reported as a private to Monticello, Arkansas, and was sent to Russellville, Arkansas to learn Army procedures. She moved on to Camp Lee, Virginia as a WAC and was enrolled in OTC for officer training. She served as a Second Lieutenant at Fort Lee and later as Company Commander in Fort Meade, Maryland. Here she met her husband, Irving, also an officer.

   Amber Aberson, a resident of Building One since 1997, is now in her eighties and still an active and accomplished golfer. She was living in England with her parents and working in a canteen for the British Armed Forces in 1939 when Britain went to war. She enlisted in the WAAF, the Women's Auxiliary Air Force, in 1940. She became a "plotter" in the operations room of a RAF fighter station. All through the Battle of Britain she posted the flights of British and German planes overhead. Later she was commissioned as a Code and Cipher Officer with the RAF. Her most vivid wartime memory was of traveling to Yalta on Winston Churchill's staff for the Crimea Conference. "Going to Yalta we lived on a ship in Sebastopol," she recalls. "Churchill and his daughter traveled back with us by sea to Malta."

   Ruth Goldwasser, another very active golfer at the Meadows, has wartime memories too. She was living at Southwestern University in Oklahoma in December 1941. Her father was in the Army and she was recruited for Physical Therapy. She first served in the WACS and then trained for a Physical Therapy commission in the Medical Department in 1941. Her wartime service was at Halloran General Hospital on Staten Island in New York. "The wonderment of helping handicapped men in uniform improve was what I most remember about those years," Ruth comments.

   "I was working as a journalist in Baltimore when I heard of the Pearl Harbor attack on the radio," Jane Connelly, now 89 years old, remembers, "Two weeks later I volunteered for the two to six a.m. shift, three nights a week, at the local Aircraft Warning Center." She stayed at this job till the following June when the WAAC (Women's Auxiliary Air Corps) was established. She attended the first US Army Training Camp for Women in Fort Des Moines, Iowa. By the time WAAC became WAC in late 1943 Jane was a second lieutenant working in Washington, DC. In December of 1943 she joined three other WAC officers to sail 17 days to the French owned island of New Caledonia to the headquarters of the famous Admiral "Bull" Halsey.

   While the other three WAC officers were secretaries for the generals in the South Pacific sector, Jane, with her journalistic background, had the more interesting assignment of working with a team engaged in top secret radio communications. Their responsibility was to report on the movements and intelligence reports on Japanese forces and attempt to break enemy codes.

   Jane vividly recalls June 6, 1944, when she and many others were at a social gathering near Admiral Halsey's headquarters in the South Pacific. As the Admiral arrived all waited anxiously for word of the D-Day invasion on the other side of the world. "Suddenly Halsey raised his glass", she recalls. " A silence swept over the great room - glasses were filled. - He looked at his watch and verified the time with his aide - and in that faraway place under tropical skies his southern voice spoke strong and sure 'To Victory - God bless them all!'" -- Betty Kent and Des Riley, Residents

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Employee Scholarship Winners
   Four Carolina Meadows employees have been awarded $500 scholarships under the Residents' Association Scholarship Program, now in its third year. This year's winners are: Patrick Bennett and Marcus Edwards, who work in Dining Services, and Kristin Ferriter and Stephanie Hodges, who work in the Health Center. The scholarship program has assisted a total of eleven employees since it began in 2000. Carolina Meadows congratulate them all on what they have already achieved, and on the dedication to their scholastic goals.

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Helaine Plaut Receives 2002 President's Award
   Dick Ballard, president of the Residents Association, awarded the 2002 President's Award to Helaine Plaut, founder of the Community Outreach Volunteers Committee. Through this committee, which she has chaired for the past two years, Helaine started the highly successful Volunteers Fairs and the OPC (Orange, Persons, Chatham counties) Summer Camp Meadowoods for developmentally handicapped children.

   Active in the United Nations Association, the Triangle chapter grew from 30 members to 300 under her leadership. After moving to Carolina Meadows she has held monthly luncheons and an annual UN celebration event promoting environmental, population and other timely issues.

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Empire of the Sultans
   On May 23rd, Carolina Meadows residents enjoyed a gala Turkish Dinner followed by a slide presentation by the NC Museum of Art. Upon entering the lobby of the Club Center guests were met by a camel and a made-in-Carolina Meadows model of the Sultan Ahmet Camirs Blue Mosque of 1616. After dinner residents enjoyed a presentation by John Coffey, Deputy Director of Curatorial Services at the North Carolina Museum of Art, on selections from over 200 antique objects on display in their May exhibition.

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Carolina Meadows Winners in Senior Games
   
Several Carolina Meadows residents won medals in the Orange-Chatham Senior games recently, and thus qualified to compete in the North Carolina Senior Games to be held in Raleigh.

   Claire Butcher won gold in cycling the one-mile and the 5K events, while her husband, Jim Butcher took silver in the corresponding men's races. The bicycling events were run in Farrington Village.

   In men's swimming, at the Triangle Sportsplex in Hillsboro, Jim Butcher won gold in the 100-yard backstroke, the 200-yard backstroke, and the 200-yard breaststroke.

   In table tennis, staged in the Chapel Hill Senior Center, Margaret Fallers won gold in women's singles and also in mixed doubles while partnered with Maurice Gold. Maurice took gold in men's singles. In tennis, Arnie Post won gold in men's singles, while Jim Pope took the silver. The team of Post and Pope then took a gold in men's doubles.

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